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  1. Reblogged this on Sarah's Attic Of Treasures and commented:

    Wishing Danny still wanted to spend quiet time with me.

  2. Good for you keeping the main thing “the main thing.” Seems like you two have come a long way already. The best is yet to come!

    Grace and peace,

    1. Vanessa, We have and it’s been fun. Have a wonderful weekend. Hugs

  3. Susan Langer says:

    I completely understand and you made the right choice. sometimes you just need to turn off the blogosphere and live real life. Good choice.:)

    1. I was on here…the blog hours and hours all summer. Needing it. The Internet was better then.
      I’very gone from one extreme to the other
      I am happier now that Danny and have been spending more time together. Hugs.

  4. Chris White says:

    It is difficult, I know. And that quote is very scarey.

  5. yhealthy2000 says:

    I’m working on another blog about health and fitness. It’s called, Coaching My Life To Fitness. http://www.coachingmylifetofitness.wordpress.com. Please check it out. Thank you very much in advance.

      1. yhealthy2000 says:

        Sarah, thank you. You are the sweetest. I think I should put my real pictures and not stick πŸ™‚ I just don’t want to be out there! Maybe fear of failure.

        1. I would love to see the real ones but YOU have to decide what you are ready for.
          I sometimes share too much of my personal life. Trying to keep it away (The blog) from family and friends. I don’t share much with them any more. Sad isn’t it.
          My sister just friended me on THIS account on Facebook…not my personal one. I was actually hesitant to accept her even though I knew everything on that account is OPENED. My personal one is sectioned of for groups and family.
          I wanted to go through and delete a few posts but didn’t.
          I am afraid of being HONEST sometimes. Or NOT HONEST ENOUGH. Afraid of NOT measuring up.
          Life is just scary any more. Love you.

          1. yhealthy2000 says:

            I’m somewhat similar. I think I’m strong in my heart…but like to live a low profile life. I want to deal with my “stuff” on my own first. Then I can share. At that point I know how to react or not. I will try to post real photos on my second blog. You are such an inspiration to me. Thank you for giving me your honest opinion. ((HUGS))

            1. You will always get my honest opinion. Hugz

              1. yhealthy2000 says:

                That’s what I have begun to love about you. You are truly a sincere person!

                1. I really try to be. If nothing else, I try to be honest in my faults.

    1. I forgot to come back. Nothing showed up but the name and Follow which I did. I look forward to it.

      1. yhealthy2000 says:

        I’m working on it…I’ve changed the name and trying to change address. If this does not work then I’ll see what I can do to recover what I put on the original blog. Thanks for your support.

        1. You will always have my support and my love.

          1. yhealthy2000 says:

            Grateful for finding you in this world of blogging!

            1. I feel the same way. It’s a maze out there. Lot’s of wonderful blogs but it’s harder to find a true friend.

              1. yhealthy2000 says:

                It’s weird that blogosphere is a world,too:)

                1. Lower half: Orlando and AND ANY THING SO UT.

                2. It is a world of its own.

        2. When you get it all set up, please resend me the link.

  6. yhealthy2000 says:

    Glad you spend time with yourself!😘

    1. I need time by myself. More than many people do. I was single most of my life. I enjoyed it.
      Now I work hard at finding the right balance between Danny and my time. I also crave quality time with him.

      1. yhealthy2000 says:

        I love the way you are so crystal clear about things:)

        1. I didn’t think I ever made much sense. It’s hard for me to describe anything. So thank you.

          1. yhealthy2000 says:

            You make a lot of sense!

  7. Krista Kemp says:

    I’m right there with you girl! I’ve been attempting to reorganize my “studio” this weekend, and hubby has been SO lonely, I’m dragged away every hour or so, thus not accomplishing much. What kills me is when he is hungry, and expects me to stop what productive task I am doing, so he can continue watching TV/napping/playing a video game. Some days I don’t mind the breaks, but when I’m devoting my work-free weekend to tackle a project at home, allow me to do what I need to do. I hope you and Danny had a fun time in the train room! Have a super week!

    1. Krista,
      WOW, Our Hubbies sound the same. you mention that yours gets lonely. So does Danny. When he is NOT on the computer and in the Train Room he Wants /NEEDS me THERE. It is crazy.

    2. There is NO MIDDLE ROAD/ GROUND with him.
      The sad thing is:
      The train room is seen from a good part of the living room where I am most of the NIGHT. We can still stalk back and forth. I can still RUN there when he calls.
      Yet, he gets lonely if I am not IN the ROOM with him.
      He doesn’t realize that I feel lonely after he shuts himself in his computer room for HOURS.
      As much as I love SPENDING Dad’s Money on the train stuff….I wished he would have UNDERSTOOD my NEED for things for OUR HOME.A better looking bedroom. We have NO BEDFRAME.
      it is NOW the storage room.
      So in gaining “Our Time Together” once again I had to give up more than he will ever understand.
      Here’s to your OWN room. YOUR TIME. <3

      1. Krista Kemp says:

        I hear you girl! With marriage, comes compromise, and generally on the woman’s part! Yeah, he needs my presence too. He waits like a puppy dog all day until I get home from work. It is getting to the point where I NEED to find a way to work from home. He did mention last night that it’s time to buy me a house. If that happens, a lot of previously shut doors will open in terms of “jobs” I can do from home. I pray that we can qualify/find/purchase a home. My home at the beach will have to sit on the back burner until the kids are done with school. 😞. Have a great weekend sugar!

        1. Oh a house of your own would be wonderful. For all of you.
          I smiled at the “Puppy”. Danny is always saying that he doesn’t need anyone yet he needs someone at home more than most people do.

        2. If you finally get the house you deserve, will you get the “space” you also need? Or will he always be underfoot? Hugs. Danny works all weekend and I am still laid up on the couch. This is a bad flair. Not BAD just bad.
          My body….legs especially HURT. Achy. My fever came back. So very glad I have the smartphone. Then I can do stuff laying down.
          Enjoy some down time.

          1. Krista Kemp says:

            I’m sorry you’re laid up! It’s never fun! I think a new house would help things. Especially the house hunting. I’ve already declared that I WILL have a studio all to myself. He knows that things are fixing to happen in my career. I hope you get to feeling better!

            1. I am glad he realizes that
              House hunting would be so much fun.

              1. Krista Kemp says:

                He likes having projects to work on.

                1. Good. That helps to keep him busy. It’s hard staying at home all the time because of a disability.
                  Are you close at all to working at home and quitting your job? That would be wonderful. For both of you.

                  1. Krista Kemp says:

                    No, not yet. But, I’ve been watching some marketing videos, and I have a more strategic game plan in mind. I think that by implementing these new changes, my business will grow quite rapidly. They’re on the cutting board now. Ironing out all the details.

            2. How is your weekend going? It is miserable out here. Rainy and chilly. Not cold but it makes my bones hurt even more.
              I hate that Danny has to work in it.

              1. Krista Kemp says:

                Just woke up from a 3 hour nap. Could have slept the day away! Ha! Guess I needed it! Put a bunch of stuff in the attic last night. Now I can focus on going through everything downstairs. Wanting to rid us of a bunch of our stuff. Have a little work left to do in the studio. Been jotting down ideas for upcoming videos. Also working on a new product line for my shop. It’s been chilly, but nice here. They’re calling for snow again in a few days. Temp is supposed to start dropping tonight.

                1. Snow. Oh how I miss it. As much as I love it, I would have trouble getting outside and playing in it. I wouldn’t be able to shovel or clear the sidewalk. At least not well.

                  1. Krista Kemp says:

                    I don’t care anything about the snow. WAY too cold for these bones! The kids love it though! We generally get the cold without the snow.

                    1. I would rather hurt from Cold and snow than hot and wet. Oh Krista, I feel good as far as the lupus/flu_like systems but my left side from my hip on down to my ankles Hurts. I was outside doing chores. ..rabbit etc when my leg gave out. I barely made it back to the house.
                      Wrapped the electric blanket totally around me. It was BAD for awhile. Wanting to cry. Now it just hurts. My left ankle is still a constant issue so feeling almost helpless again.
                      I can’t get comfy.
                      Really frustrated. The Super Bowl starts soon. I love the Broncos.
                      Danny has had a terrible day at work…..he’s exhausted.
                      He wanted to know what good things I was making for the Event.
                      Frozen pizza. That is just not right.
                      I love Sports Food.

                    2. Krista Kemp says:

                      I am SO sorry! I wish I could do something to make you feel better! Yeah, baby girl went to a Super Bowl party tonight. I hope she gets those wings she’s been wanting. I agree, it’s not the same without the feast of goodies!

                    3. Or someone awake to watch the game. Poor Danny. He lasted 30 mins. He’s cold and it is 78 in

                    4. I was going to send a photo of him but haven’t figured out how.

                    5. Half time makes me feel old.

                    6. Krista Kemp says:

                      Poor thing! I’m sorry!

                    7. Krista Kemp says:

                      Half time would make anyone feel old! LOL!

                    8. What happened to the feel good Budweiser, Coke and Pepsi commercials? No horses or polar bears.
                      They were awful.
                      So was halftime.

                    9. I am moving around better. Carefully.
                      It is sunny and cool. Beautiful out.
                      How is your Monday? Busy?

                    10. Krista Kemp says:

                      So far, it’s been productive. Glad to be home from work. Figuring out bills, getting caught up on my emails, heading to make burgers for dinner in just a bit. I’ll be having a vegetarian Chik patty. After that, I imagine I’ll work on my business binder for a bit before bed. How has your day been?

                    11. Slept through most of it.

                    12. Krista Kemp says:

                      I guess you needed the rest today πŸ˜„

                    13. We FINALLY went to Walmart. We were out of everything. FOOD. We had soup, saltines, wine and soda here. I’m serious. No dish soap, laundry soap ….you get the idea.
                      Mr. Bojangles. …he eats better than we do. LOL. He had plenty left.

                    14. We also ate out for the first time in months. We were both craving huge salads and French fries. Crazy combination.
                      Leftovers for supper.
                      I did good walking. I HURT But managed. My cold stuff got put up. Everything else is on the counters where it can STAY.

                    15. I am lying on the couch. Feet propped up. Fan on Me because D is COLD. THE WHOLE HOUSE IS HOT AND HE IS IN ONE ROOM.
                      HOW was your day?

                2. Yes, if you slept for 3 hours, you needed it.

                  1. Krista Kemp says:

                    Slept another 2 today.

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